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Your Guide To Hookup Advice & More

You may know InstantHookups.com as one of the web's top hookup dating sites, but we are so much more than that! We truly care about our members and want them to find success both on and off of our site. In fact, even if you aren't a member of our site we still want you to be successful. If we didn't, we would have put this guide somewhere that was accessible to members only! So, whether you're looking for hookup advice, sex advice, dating advice, or relationship advice, InstantHookups.com has got everything you need right here!

Below, you will find over 40 incredible sex, relationship, dating, and hookup advice articles, ranging from "How To Get Better At Hooking Up" to "How To Not Get Bored In A Relationship" to "How To Plan An Orgy" and so much more, all organized in a simple and easy to navigate directory. First though, we will walk you through what you can expect to find in this guide, as well as supply you with a thorough listing of reasons regarding why and how this guide will help you succeed (you know, if you are not already a believer). We do not want to waste any more time up here in the intro though, so let's get started, shall we?

Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, & More: What You Will Find In This Guide

Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, & More: What You Will Find In This Guide

The four main areas that we cover in this guide are Sex Advice, Relationship Advice, Dating Advice, and Hookup Advice. Within those four categories, however, you will find that we have focused on a wide variety of topics. In our guide, you will find everything from the run-of-the-mill (like "How To Hook Up Without Getting Hurt" and "What Not To Do On A First Date") to the bizarre (like "What Is Fidget Spinner Porn?" and "What Is Hot Sex Milk?"). Beyond that, we also provide direction for your next steps and give you a selection of suggestions on how to use the information in this guide in the most successful way possible. Below, we will run through each of these sections more thoroughly, to give you a better understanding of what kind of relationship advice, sex advice, hookup advice, dating advice, and more that you will find here in this guide.

Hookup Advice

The first section we have up is Hookup Advice. Within our Hookup Advice section, you will find everything you need to know about hooking up: how to find hookups, how to avoid hookups, how to handle your first hookup, how to get better at hooking up, how to prevent getting hurt with a hookup, how to turn a hookup into something more, how to find the best partners for hookups, how to survive hookup culture, and more! Whether you are looking for hookups, looking to avoid hookups, or just looking for information, we have got everything you need!

Sex Advice

Sex Advice

The second section we have up is Sex Advice. Within our Sex Advice section, you will find all of our very best sex advice, on a variety of sex topics: where (and where not) it is appropriate to have sex, joining the mile high club, cultivating cunnilingus (or resenting the lack thereof), keeping your toys and goodies clean, navigating a low sex drive, organizing group sex, taking advantage of sexting's possibilities, understanding modern sex clubs, and identifying strange new trends in sex (such as "hot sex milk" and fidget spinner porn), and more! So, no matter what kind of sex advice you are looking for, we surely have something in this guide that will help you!

Dating Advice

Dating Advice

The third section we have in this guide is Dating Advice. Within our Dating Advice section, you will find everything you need to become a dating expert, including topics like: May-December relationships, altering eating habits with partners, managing the single life on special occasions, dating in the digital world, getting out of a dating rut, planning great dates, dating and texting, and a lot more! Whatever it is that you need to know about dating and navigating the world while you're single and ready to mingle, we have got it here in our InstantHookups' guide!

Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

The last of our four main sections is Relationship Advice. Within this Relationship Advice section, you will be able to access articles that can help you with a variety of relationship issues: boredom in relationships, breakups, "situationships", managing mental health issues in relationships, keeping the happiness and horniness in long-term relationships, money and relationships, weight and relationships and more! Whether you are looking to start a relationship, end a relationship, repair a relationship, keep a good relationship on a steady course, or cope a relationship issue that is out of your hands, we have got relationship advice that can help you out.

Advice For Taking Your Next Steps

Advice For Taking Your Next Steps

At the end of our four main sections-and all the advice articles within them-you will find a special bonus section. This section is here to give you some direction when it comes to taking the hookup advice, sex advice, dating advice, and relationship advice you gain in this guide and applying it to the real world situations you will encounter out there. In this section, we will discuss the possibilities that can lead to successful outcomes and we will also give you suggestions for next steps so that you can start off headed in the right direction.

Thorough, Accessible, & Relatable: Why This Guide Is For You

We know there are a lot of skeptics and non-believers out there when it comes to hookup dating sites, online advice articles, and other services we offer, but we are not afraid to respond to that doubt. Below, we will run through just some of the reasons why we believe our advice articles will work for you!

Our Best Hookup Advice

Welcome! This is the very first section in our guide and it deals entirely with hookup advice (we'll get to sex advice, dating advice, and relationship advice in our next three sections). For reference, we are speaking about the kind of hookups that can be defined as "instances of people meeting, casual sexual encounters". Below, you will find ten hookup advice articles, ranging from "How To Avoid Getting Stuck In The Hookup Zone" to "How To Pick The Best Matches On Hookup Sites" to "How To Hook Up With Your Ex With No Strings Attached" and more! Check out the list of hookup advice articles below and click their "read more" links to be automatically directed to the full pages.

How To Avoid Getting Stuck In The Hookup Zone

There are a few different ways you can stay out of the hookup zone, so you can choose your approach. You don't want to give your hookup too much power over the situation, because that could land you immediately into the hookup zone with no hope of ever getting out...

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How To Deal With Guys Who Only Want To Hookup

If you're looking for a casual short-term relationship, it can be kind of tough, because a lot of guys these days are just looking for one time hookups. Sometimes you're interested in someone and want to see where it might go, but he's only got one thing on his mind...

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How To Get Better At Hooking Up

When it comes to knowing how to get better at hooking up, there are two areas where you really need to focus - your game, and sex. You need skill at reeling in your hookups, or at least charming them into your bed. From there, you need to have game between...

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How To Handle A First-Time Hookup

About to experience a hookup for the very first time? Congratulations! You're in for a hell of a night! Feeling nervous is totally normal, but it doesn't need to be a stressful experience. In fact, it shouldn't be stressful, and the more you stress about your upcoming hookup, the less...

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How To Hook Up With Your Ex With No Strings Attached

Hooking up leads to lulls sometimes, and that's totally normal if you're doing it a lot! But when you can't meet anyone new for a hookup, who can you go to to get laid? Your ex! This is someone you already know, who already knows what you like, and will...

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How To Hook Up Without Getting Hurt

Hooking up can seem like a whole big process, and a complicated one at that! But it really doesn't need to be, and we're going to help you figure that out. Just because you're sleeping with someone doesn't mean there needs to be feelings involved - it's a fun, no strings...

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How To Make A Random Hookup Into A Summer Fling

Have a recent hookup that you're hoping to keep hooking up with throughout the summer? Lucky for you, we've dedicated an entire article on how to make a random hookup into a summer fling! Having a summer fling doesn't mean you have a relationship, it just means that you get...

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How To Own Your College Hookups

Let's face it - everyone has college hookups that they aren't proud of. It could be one, a couple, or even all of your sexual shenanigans throughout your time at college, but the point is, you probably feel a twinge of regret when you think about one (or all) of them...

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How To Pick The Best Matches On Hookup Sites

Did you recently join a hookup site, or feel overwhelmed with your options? Are you looking for advice on how to pick the best matches on hookup sites? You're in the right place! We made the most in-depth how-to guide on choosing the best possible matches on any hookup sites...

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How To Survive Hookup Culture When Seeking A Relationship

Navigating the dating world and trying to find a relationship is hard enough, but add hookup culture to the mix and you've got total chaos! What can you do to find yourself a relationship when it seems like everyone out there is just looking for sex? That's where we come...

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Our Best Relationship Advice

Continuing on, here is the second section of our four-section guide: Relationship Advice. Here, you will find our most top-notch relationship advice (we'll continue on to sex advice and dating advice in our next two sections) for the relationships in your life. Just as with our Hookup Advice section, we'd like to take a moment to define what the word "relationship" means so that we are all on the same page when going through these articles. So, what is a relationship? A relationship is "an emotional and sexual association between two people". Below, you will find ten relationship advice articles, ranging from "How To Make A Relationship Work" to "Is It Normal Not To Post Relationship Photos Online?" to "How Do I Get My Partner To Lose Weight?" and more! Scroll down and you will find out complete list of relationship articles below.

How To Not Get Bored In A Relationship

Once you've been in a relationship for a while, things can start to get a bit stale. There are lots of ways not to get bored in a relationship, though. We've got the tips you're looking for, to not to get bored in your relationship and to keep things fresh...

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Is It Normal Not To Post Relationship Photos Online?

There can sometimes be a bit of a debate when it comes to whether or not to post relationship photos online. Whether or not you or your partner decide to this is completely up to you. There can be a lot of reasons why people decide to post or not...

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What's The Average Length Of A Relationship?

Relationship dynamics are changing in this day and age, and a lot of us want to know: how long does the average relationship last? What are the rules anymore? What are the stages? Not every relationship is the same, of course, and it can be challenging to nail down exactly...

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Does Money Affect Relationships?

When it comes to dating, does money affect relationships? Well, of course it does. To think that it doesn't means that you're likely choosing to overlook something. If you want to understand more about why money might be affecting your relationship, InstantHookups has some important points for you to consider...

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How Do I Get My Partner To Lose Weight?

Wanting our partner to lose weight can be a very touchy subject to approach. It is very easy to shut someone down immediately when you bring up a subject like this. Can you get your partner to lose weight, though? Yes, it is possible, but it's something to approach very...

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How To Make A Breakup Suck Less

Breaking up is never an easy thing to do. It's awkward, uncomfortable, hurtful. No one wants to be the one who gets hurt - or the one who has to hurt someone else. Breakups will always suck, but you can make breakups suck less, if you take a look at a...

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What Is A "Situationship"?

A situationship can be identified by the following indicators: you stay over at each other's place a lot and you're both totally comfortable around each other, you're only seeing them and those close to you aren't sure why this isn't an actual relationship, you speak mostly via text message and...

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How To Manage Mental Health Issues In A Relationship

So, how do you manage mental health issues in a relationship? It isn't always going to be easy, but there is a lot you can do. First of all, it's important to acknowledge the issues, get help, and be open to communicating about them. Recognize and understand the symptoms by...

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How To Make A Relationship Work

So, how do you make a relationship work? It's not always easy, but at the same time, it's not always that difficult either. Remember that honesty is always the way to go and keep the lines of communication open. Set healthy boundaries and recognize that you're two different people and...

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How To Have Hot AF Sex In A Long Term Relationship

Making the time for sex and taking your time when you're having it is key. Take the time to get to know your partner's body intimately and they're sure to appreciate sex with you. Talk about what you both like with each other and don't be afraid to ask questions...

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Our Best Sex Advice

Ah, the big one: sex. If you do not know what sex is, you probably should not be on this page in the first place, but... let's go ahead and define it anyway, just in case. Sex is defined as, "sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen". And that, exactly, is what our Sex Advice section is all about! Below, you will find ten sex advice articles, ranging from "What To Expect In A Sex Club" to "How To Practice Safe Sexting" to "How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Go Down On Me?" and more! All you have to do is scroll down to check them out and click on the "read more" links to see the full sex advice articles.

Can I Have Sex In An AirBnB?

Can you have sex in an AirBnB? Yes, no, and maybe. If you are renting then the answer is, 'Yes, by all means proceed to have sex at will,' so long as your prospective sex partner is not the landlord. If you own the AirBnB, then the answer is a...

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How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Go Down On Me?

Get your man to go down on you by being sexy, by being assertive (this means straight up asking for oral sex,) by smelling great and keeping yourself in great shape, and by making time for sex. You can also encourage him to help him feel sexy and capable - guys...

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How Do You Join The Mile High Club?

Entry to the fabled Mile High Club is fairly easy - you simply have to have sex while on a flight. It's not as easy as it sounds, though! While there do exist a few airlines that will allow, and even encourage, having sex on an airplane, (do a Google search!)...

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How To Clean Your Sex Toys

Be thorough, and have a cleaning regime that is specific to each sex toy that you own. If you need a special cleaning product, such as antibacterial gel specially formulated for use with silicone, then buy it, and use it. Remove batteries if there are any, and leave all components...

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How To Fix A Low Sex Drive

Generally, a healthy body leads to a healthy sex drive, so watch your weight, your exercise, your diet, and your stress levels. Identify first of all whether this is a short term or long term problem. If it is a short term problem, then you can try a quick fix...

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How To Plan An Orgy

Pick the right people when you plan an orgy (this should include screening for STIs as discreetly as possible); make sure you pick a venue where there are no noise restrictions; and buy a huge fruit bowl, and a huge amount of condoms to put in it. Be sure that...

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How To Practice Safe Sexting

Sexting can be fun - but it can also be dangerous! NEVER go to meet someone you have spoken with only over the internet. Also, make sure you never give your real name - and certainly not your address - to anybody that you do not know. If you are sexting a friend...

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What Is Fidget Spinner Porn?

There are two answers to this. The first is that fidget spinner porn does not exist - at least, it is not real porn. You may have heard of food porn, or word porn - these terms simply refer to pictures of things that people like to look at: in these cases...

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What Is Hot Sex Milk?

Hot Sex Milk is a blend of pumpkin seed milk mixed with maca powder, cacao powder, ho shou wu, coconut oil, schisandra berries, and bee pollen. It is formulated to excite the body's sexual centers, and can work for both men and women. Yes, you can order it online, but...

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What To Expect In A Sex Club

Every sex club is different. Some welcome couples and women, while some exclude single men. Most have a hostess who will help you have the kind of fun you want. There are usually lockers to put your stuff in, and clothing is often optional. Now, first of all, don't expect...

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Our Best Dating Advice

With Hookup Advice, Sex Advice, and Relationship Advice out of the way, only our fourth and final section is left: Dating Advice. The word "dating" has a variety of definitions, although they all essentially refer to the same concept. For example, Merriam-Webster defines dating as "doing activities with someone you have-or might have-a romantic relationship with". Similarly, Google defines dating as "going out with (someone in whom one is romantically or sexually interested)". Wikipedia, on the other hand, defines dating as "a stage of romantic or sexual relationships whereby two or more people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in a more committed intimate relationship or marriage". When it comes to our own dating advice articles, any one of these definitions will do the job! Below, you will find ten dating advice articles, ranging from "How To Date Someone Older Than You" to "How To Foster Healthier Eating Habits With Your Partner" to "How To Plan Dates When You Suck At It" and more! All you have to do is scroll down, check out the list of dating advice articles we have available, and click the "read more" links to get the complete information.

How To Date Someone Older Than You

Dating someone older than you means more than just getting used to someone's odd little ways - it is a meeting of generations. This is an opportunity to gain a whole bunch of knowledge and insight, and there is also something extremely hot about an age gap hookup - which must explain...

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How To Enjoy New Year's Eve When You're Single AF

There are several ways to enjoy New Year's Eve when you are single AF - you can either go out and hope to hook up, or you can team up with your pals for a lads' or girls' night out, on the one hand. One the other, you can shun society...

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How To Foster Healthier Eating Habits With Your Partner

If you are looking to foster healthier eating partners with your partner, start by going on a health kick together. Limit meat, and add more fibre to your diet. Make sure that you are both within your calorie limit for your BMI, and make sure you drink enough water and...

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How To Get Out Of The Ultimate Dating Rut

If you are looking to get out of a dating rut, get out there and start to meet new people. Get involved in activities that really excite you. Travel, take up a hobby, do things you have never done before. Make use of online dating apps and websites, and go...

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How To Meet Local Singles In A Digital World

If you want to make local singles in a digital world, you need to make use of social media, especially apps like Twitter that allow you to set and search by location, while utilizing targeted hashtags (think 'fun,' such as #singleAF), and join online meetup groups. Explore your interests, and...

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How To Plan Dates When You Suck At It

If you suck at planning dates, you need to not let the other person make all your decisions about your dates. Take the initiative and assert yourself. If you find it really that hard to plan dates, stick with tried and tested ideas, such as a movie, a meal, going...

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Is Dating Harder For Millennials?

Millennials face challenges in the dating world that other generations knew nothing about - you are more visible online, and it is therefore a lot easier to find pretty much everything there is to know about you through simple keyword searches. Millennials also face the problem of too much choice...

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What Is Cuffing Season?

Cuffing season is basically the winter period, and the term refers to the practice of hooking up with someone during the cold months, especially if you would normally be single throughout the year. Taking part in cuffing season can often result in cozying up with someone you might not normally...

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What Not To Do On A First Date

If you want to know what not to do on a first date, don't eat anything smelly beforehand, make sure you have enough cash to cover a meal, an event, a cab ride, and above all be polite and interested in the other person. Don't be too forward, and don't...

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What To Do If He Stops Texting

If you are dating someone and just stopped texting, first, do nothing. Don't chase him, don't call the hospitals, don't pester his mom. He's fine, he's just being a dude. Second, think about how you want to deal with this disrespectful treatment. You clearly need to talk to him about...

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Next Steps: What Are They & How To Take Them

Next Steps: What Are They & How To Take Them

First of all, if you have not read through all of the advice articles above, stop what you are doing, scroll back up, and finish doing that first. There are no next steps until you have readied yourself through the reading of each and every sex advice, relationship advice, hookup advice, and dating advice article. If you have completed all the readings, you can move on to our last two sections below where we discuss next steps and how to take them.

Next Steps

Next Steps

Okay. So, when it comes to next steps, not everyone will have the same path. For example, someone who is single and looking for hookups will not have the same next steps as someone who is currently in a rocky relationship that they are trying to rein in. The best advice we can give you is to follow the steps laid out in the articles that are most relevant to your current situation. If you need to know the next steps to take after your boyfriend stops texting you, follow the dating advice in "What To Do If He Stops Texting". If you're looking to spice up the sex life of your long term relationship, you will want to follow the relationship advice in "How To Have Hot AF Sex In A Long Term Relationship".

How To Take Them

Well, as the great Nike, Inc. would say, "Just Do It!" But, seriously, it really isn't much harder than that! We made sure that all of our articles included advice for taking action and moving towards a goal. All you need to do is read our articles and follow the advice you find within! Simple!